http://inlove.today.com Experiencing Love and Life Together! Wed, 04 Mar 2009 18:07:49 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en That is the message of the month. Often timeS we look to a relationship to complete us and we forget that another person can't complete us, we must complete ourselves! A relathionship or marriage should be two whole people coming together to form a partnership. My company Soul Writers,LLC offers ... http://inlove.today.com/2009/03/04/complete-you-then-get-a-man/ Many women seem to get it confused. They feel that being in a relationship means having sex with their partner, even if they aren't married. Outside of marriage, celibacy should rule. It should be the core of what she stands for, besides God of course, but standing for God as ... http://inlove.today.com/2008/08/22/the-celibate-woman/ The build up, the tension, the worry, the anxiety, all for what? Many people put so much thought into marriage before marriage and don't realize that it's almost just like dating. The good thing is that when you are married you aren't in sexual sin. The consistent part is that ... http://inlove.today.com/2008/07/08/i-do/ Today we are noticing many women who keep their guards up. A man can't even have a casual conversation for the woman's fear of being gamed. As soon as he opens his mouth she jumps down his throat and believes he is trying to woo her or talk her out ... http://inlove.today.com/2008/07/07/the-guarded-hearts/ When I heard this it made me laugh, but not in a bad way. It was amusing to me because this is actually a solution to many black women's problems. In the same day I encountered two young beautiful black females that said they want a white man. I wasn't ... http://inlove.today.com/2008/07/06/i-want-a-white-man/ All over we are watching women degrade themselves for the company of a man. Many women feel lost or helpless without a man. They look to this man for completion and or security. They look to this man for guidance and or leadership. The sad part is, a lot of ... http://inlove.today.com/2008/07/02/shes-lost-without-him/ If you go to your bank to make a withdrawl, would you expect the teller to give you $100, if you only put in $50? That is how a lot of people are treating relationships these days. Many people come into a relationship bringing baggage and bad habits, but expect ... http://inlove.today.com/2008/06/30/you-get-out-what-you-put-in/ There is a new type of woman surfacing in this ever independent society. This is the "available" woman. The woman who doesn't mention her other half until she knows the man she is conversing with has the guts to mention his other half. A select group of dating or married ... http://inlove.today.com/2008/06/28/the-available-woman/ There is a woman out there that has learned how to manage her time so that she can get the best out of herself and her day. She has calculated what it takes to be a Christian,wife, mother, employee, and entrepreneur. She has prioritized in such a way that she ... http://inlove.today.com/2008/06/26/robo-woman/ I keep hearing this statement, loud and proud. It seems as if women are empowering themselves to the point that they become self sufficient and no longer have to depend on two incomes or a man to help them run their life. This is a new age and a new ... http://inlove.today.com/2008/06/20/i-dont-need-a-man/