InLove

Many women seem to get it confused. They feel that being in a relationship means having sex with their partner, even if they aren’t married. Outside of marriage, celibacy should rule. It should be the core of what she stands for, besides God of course, but standing for God as a single woman means you are standing for celibacy.

Many women don’t understand that a man isn’t worth their time if he isn’t willing to wait. Like the Dr. Says “I’m worth the wait”, and she is a Virgin in her 30’s and is very pretty also.

Celibacy puts you on a level of your own, you stand out in the eyes of men, the good men don’t mind and those that mind shouldn’t matter. So if you got a man, and being celibate will run him away or make him cheat, then guess what? It’s done it’s job.

Sex can’t keep a man! There is no other way around it, the best or the worst sex, won’t make him stay or leave, because to a man sex is just sex. So don’t feel like having sex with him will secure a future with that man, because as crazy as it sounds, it might just do the opposite. Being celibate on the other hand, you usher in a real and true man. You build that man, you transform him from a boy into a man. He is earning your love, so when he is able to express it by making love after marriage he appreciates what he has worked so very hard for and has no intentions to leave. But when you give in before marriage, you bail that man out. Now he has no reason to marry you because you’ve gave him the prize before running the race!!

So to the celibate women, and the women contemplating being celibate, let it decipher between the good and bad men. It never lies, because when you find that man that is willing to wait, you’ll realize that it was worth the wait!