InLove

Today we are noticing many women who keep their guards up. A man can’t even have a casual conversation for the woman’s fear of being gamed. As soon as he opens his mouth she jumps down his throat and believes he is trying to woo her or talk her out of her phone number. As true as it may be for most men, what about the genuine man? What about the answer to the problem? What about the man who could be the man of your dreams?

The guarded woman pushes him away too. This man could be able to help you get through the rough times, or offer you a new break in life, but the guarded woman pushes him away too. Women should keep their guards up, but they should be invisible. The guards shouldn’t be mean faces, harsh words, or rolling of the eyes. The guards should be genuine and sincere questions, simple and complex.

Questions like: Are you in a relationship? What is your occupation? Do you have your own place? Do you have a car? Do you have kids? And so on. Get those answers even if he just wants to be a “friend” because all of that info will affect your relationship with him. Don’t just hear what he has to say, but research it for yourself and find it to be true or false.

Keep in mind while gaurding your heart, you will know the tree by the fruit that it bares! There are good men still roaming around, and their actions will solidify their intentions. Make sure you don’t box the man of your dreams out of your life because you are too guarded to look into his eyes and seek out the truth.

God Bless!