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All over we are watching women degrade themselves for the company of a man. Many women feel lost or helpless without a man. They look to this man for completion and or security. They look to this man for guidance and or leadership. The sad part is, a lot of the women that are leaning on this man for this are leaning on grown boys, not men.

These women are trusting in and relying on grown boys who haven’t yet discovered their purpose on this earth. Grown boys who don’t really understand themselves or what they want out of life. Grown boys who pretend to know who and what they are, by living through the lives of others. Grown boys with a hidden “momma’s boy” complex who seek out and prey on weak women. These grown boys are looking for a mother in the form of a girlfriend. Many of them are finding what they need because our society is yielding more and more of these type of women.

Signs to know something is going wrong. The woman is working and the man is “hustling” or doing nothing. The woman pays the bills and the man run’s them up. The woman has the car but the man drives it. The woman has the apartment or home, but the man run’s it. The man decides where the woman can and can’t go. The man put’s his hands the woman. The man decides who the woman does and doesn’t talk to. These are just a few signs, there are more but I’m sure you get the point.

If you are this type of woman or you know a woman who is “lost” without her “grown boy”, be sure to let her know she is worth more. Let her know that she deserves better, and in order for a man to truly take care of her he must first understand himself. Let her know a thug is not a man, he’s a lost soul. Let her know a dreamer who doesn’t act is not a man, he’s a lost soul. Let her know that she must first be complete in order to get the respect she deserves from a man. Lastly, remember the design by God. Woman wasn’t put here to raise her husband, she was put here to be a help-mate to a God fearing, righteous living man. That’s the only way you’ll find marital bliss!

God Bless!

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