InLove

Many of us go into dating without ever really knowing what we are getting into. Then all of a sudden a light comes on and we realize that the person we are with aren’t who we thought they were. Whose to blame? Certainly not the person you’re with. It’s your fault because you didn’t ask enough questions.

You want to find a person that is articulate and that can think and speak easily. What I’m talking about isn’t just the actual skill but the process of being someone who can think through problems and understand themselves. If you ask a person questions about themselves and they give you “I don’t know” answers then that isn’t someone that is ready for a real relationship. In order to be in a relationship we must first be complete, otherwise we will just tear down what the other person is trying to build.

So when you are seeking true love, ask questions! Get a list of basic questions that will show you that persons current situation, future goals and aspirations and their past. You want to know where the person has been and where they are going. That way if you are taking the ride with them, you will know what to expect. Never hold back questions because you are afraid of running them off! In actuality that is exactly what you want to find out. If a person can’t stand answering a few simple questions then you know they won’t be able to stand the trials and tribulations that come with dating.

Be smart and Be blessed!