InLove

Love is about trust, but as easy as it is said we all know it’s one of the hardest things to do. Trusting someone could take forever if you let it, but I believe I’ve found the secret.

We view life and gain knowledge by our own experiences and the experiences of those around us. Therefore we only know what we’ve lived or what we’ve seen. Therefore we are able to make judgements about certain situations with the knowledge we’ve gained in the past.

With that being said: I believe that the key to trusting someone else is first being able to trust yourself. If you can trust yourself and you have no sense of guilt then you won’t expect your partner to have any either. If you are complete and you love yourself and you love your partner then you will expect the same in return.

So next time when you start feeling insecure think really hard about why those feelings exist. Try to pin point why you feel he or she may want someone besides you. The real answer may be because at times you find yourself wanting someone other than them. Therefore you conscious mind tells you if it’s possible for you then it’s possible for them and that may not be completely truly. But that speculation could lead to problems in the relationship.

So before you get to serious, make sure that you are complete as a person. Then you will be able to enter into a relationship whole and secure and able to trust the person with all your heart.

God Bless!