Jun 03 2008
Should I date a man that is married?
Talk about letting a man have his cake and eat it too! For any unsaved man this would be a dream come true and many men have had this dream fulfilled. Only to one day wake up to a nightmare. With that being said, I say if you really like him them you’d let him go.
Think about the foundation of lies and deceit that your relationship is built on and then ask yourself can it stand the test of time. If he did it to her what makes you think he won’t do it to you? Now that you’ve found out he is married if you continue to see him he will lose all respect for you because you wouldn’t be respecting yourself.
To a married man, the woman on the side is just that. The woman he is married to is who really has his heart and is who will always have his heart no matter how many other women he goes through. The cheating with you is just to fill a void in his marriage or to show himself he still has what it takes to woo a woman. I wouldn’t advise continuing to be a play toy or second best.
Every woman deserves to be the #1 in a man’s life so don’t settle for anything less. Lastly, please know that karma is real and if you do that woman like that it’s going to come back on you and probably a whole lot worse!
Be careful and God Bless!