InLove

In this day and time(this year) it seems being single is what’s hot! At least for a woman it is, men will always be seen as dogs if they are single and ready to mingle. I see a lot of women these days that are single and I wonder why. Is it because a man can’t control them? Is it because they chose to be? I get confused sometimes, but I’m still trying to understand if its a good thing or a bad thing.

What I mean is: if you are single because no man can handle you or learn to love you then that isn’t something I’d brag about. Then on the other hand if you are single because you want to focus on you and your dreams and not let a man get in the way of that, that is respectable.

I’m not a fan of women who are single and miserable but try to play it off as if it’s a choice and not a force. They make other women feel insecure for being in love or attached to a man, when in reality that is what that woman needs. I respect the woman who is single and celibate because she is on a grind and waiting for the right time to find love, I can get down with that. Now if you are single and sleeping around, I WOULDN’T TELL A SOUL IF I WERE YOU! Keep that one to yourself, even pretend like you are dating!

So find out where you are my young friend, and then you be the judge of your own happiness. If you are single for the right reasons then be proud of it, but if you need a reality check then make sure you get clarity on that issue.

God Bless!