May 28 2008
Is Love Really Blind?
Many people say Love is blind, but in reality it isn’t. Think about who you’ve ever loved without really seeing who they are. Whether it be what they look like or the type of person they are. You had to take it all in before you truly loved them. Now this doesn’t go for the love that you have for a child or your family. I’m speaking of the love you have for your spouse.
Is love really blind? If love is blind then why aren’t their more interracial couples? If love is blind then why do people have problems with interracial couples? If love is blind then why don’t we date and marry COMPLETE opposites? If love is blind then why do looks matter? If love is blind then why does weight matter?
So no matter what they told you about love, it’s not blind unless the person is blind. Love see’s clearly and love love’s what it likes to see. I wish sometimes that love could be blind but unfortunately it isn’t. So before you suffer a huge heartache or go through a lot of unnecessary drama in the name of “blind love”, think again and realize that love is not blind.
So love yourself first and realize what it is you want to love and what it is you want loving you. Don’t settle for less or fall into the pit of “blind love”. You deserve what your heart desires and no matter what it is, don’t label it “blind” if that is what you chose with your own two eyes.