InLove

This is a hard question because a lot of times both people chasing a dream could cause separation. I mean look at it like this, when you chase a dream you are following a path. But what if your path leads in the opposite direction of your man’s path? Then you two will be going two separate ways.

Now don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with chasing a dream but it must be done in the right timing. You need each other for support when you are chasing a dream so it’s important that you all decide which one needs to happen first. When you do that then someone will be sacrificing and putting their dream on hold to help support the other one. But as soon as your dream has been achieved then you need to begin to support your other half in achieving theirs.

It gets rough sometimes deciding who will go first, but a lot of times it could be as simple as looking at who started first. If you’ve been moving towards this dream since you were 15 and now all of a sudden your husband decides at 25 that he wants to chase his, then it’s only fair that he helps you finish your race first.

So with that in mind I hope that you all can sit down and come to an agreement. I mean after all no one wants to see a separation because two people were too ambitious to support one another in their dreams.

God Bless!