May 05 2008
Should I Cheat after he’s Cheated?
They say “two wrongs don’t make a right” and they were just right! If a wrong accompanies a wrong then it will only set up another wrong and the vicious cycle will continue. It take a mature person to break the cycle!
When you break the cycle you become the victor. You are able to sleep in peace and know that you won the battle. The wrong that your partner has done will eat him alive and he will reap a punishment of his own.
It’s confusing to a man when he cheats and you continue to smile and laugh as if nothing has ever happened. Instead of him doing it more he will actually come closer to you to figure out what you’re doing that has you “all smiles”. He won’t want to leave home because he will want to stick around to see why are you so happy and normal.
Cheating is an empty act. There is no pleasure in the aftermath and it leaves a nasty taste in your mouth, especially if you’re in a real relationship when you do it.
I’m not saying you should stay with him after he cheats, because you should actually leave. But if you’ve contemplated cheating to get him back then that lets me know you’ve decided to stay. So if you’re going to stay then do so in grace. Don’t stoop to his level and tarnish your name as he’s done to his own.
God Bless!
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