May 04 2008
Why Don’t Men like to help clean?
Well it depends on what type of men you are talking to. You have to ask yourself what is the difference in you all’s external jobs. If you are sitting in the Air conditioning all day behind a desk or on your feet and he is in the hot sun or freezing cold all day on his feet, then take a second look at the situation. If you reversed the roles then would you feel like coming home and cleaning up?
I hope and pray that this question isn’t from a stay at home mom, girlfriend or wife. If that’s the case then your question answers itself.
Some men are old fashioned and believe that inside the house is a woman’s job and outside is the man’s job. Now, if you are cleaning up the house, taking out the trash, fixing the cars and mowing the lawn then something has gone terribly wrong. I would like to think that he has you doing ALL of the cleaning duties but he maybe washes the cars, takes the trash, and all the other handy man or maintenance jobs.
So if you have a good man that is working 40 hard hours a week and taking care of the hard stuff that you wouldn’t dare to do or can’t do then take pride in washing dishes and mopping the floors, it won’t kill you! Then on the other hand, if he isn’t doing his fair share then I would suggest you go on strike to see if he will come out of his slump and start cleaning himself,lol.
God Bless!