May 03 2008
Should I submit to an unfaithful man?
To the young lady that asked this question I want to say Thank You! This question seems like a pretty simple one, but in actuality it isn’t. Many women in this country and around the world submit themeselves to an unfaithful man everyday. Why, you may ask. Some women feel like it doesn’t matter which man they are with, he will cheat so why not put up with this one. Some women feel like if they submit it will make him love her more and then he will keep is lovin’ inside of their home. For whatever reason a woman does submit to an unfaithful man, I would like to believe it isn’t right and it’s not worth it.
If you submit to a man that you know is unfaithful then you are condoning his behavior and that will only increase that behavior. If you don’t submit and you do what you gotta do to cope then that may send him a message, but in the worst case scenario that could even make him cheat more.
In my opinion the best thing to do for an unfaithful man is to leave him. Obviously if you are considering submitting to him then you have been with him a good while, so there is most likely a mutual love. Therefore if you leave it will definately hurt that man, but that is what it takes for most men to realize that cheating isn’t worth losing that woman you truly love.
From this two things can happen. Either the next woman will get a really good man, or time will pass and you will give in to him after some months and you will get a “new” man. Plan B isn’t always a bad choice because I’ve seen it work before.
With whatever you decide be ready for the consequences!
God Bless!